You In Society.
What should I do to make the society interested in me. How can I make my name in society and through which way! The world is full of billions of humans of different nature or different mind setup. Everyone is living his or her life according to the principal: “You are the only one talented and most intelligent person in all over the world”. People never show interest in other’s life. Nobody has the right idea of what the life is? And how to live in a friendly way. Everybody is busy in making money all the time. Do you know what, Why people like dogs? Because they think Dog is a faithful animal. It obeys him, love him and obey all his orders. But why is it so? It is because you give him your time, you play with him, give him food etc. So he comes to know that you are his boss and his duty is to obey you. But what about humans? In this time, we all say that we are busy, we don’t have time to listen you and your story etc.
If you want to win others you have to show interest in them. If you think you can change them by making them interested in you then it’s your wrong perception. It’s on us. We have to show interest in people. Like talk to others without any personal reason or to get something from them.
Let’s take an example like all magicians thinks that they will make people fool by showing some fake illusions. But Thurston was a magician and his perception was that he is all because of his audience and before starting any show he says,“he loves his audience, he loves his audience”. And then he gives his best to satisfy them. There are some people who lives for others and show interest in them and in result the world likes him and believe in him.

Let me share the incident of my life. I was on Aytiqaf at Mosque in the last ten days of Ramadan. And people come from different areas and just say “Pray for us, Pray for us”. I said,“Sure! Sure! Why not…”. These days are the best days of my life and I sit down with some old people and start talking to them and I asked them tell me the result and conclusion of your life so that I live my life perfectly. Everyone gives me really extraordinary conclusions. But one day, the day which changed my mind completely. At that day,. I saw an old man who is wearing very simple clothes with white beard. I took steps towards him and started talking to him about his life. He told me about his life, his condition etc but the shocking moment was at the end. At the end, I said Baba G Allah Hafiz and please Pray for me. In reply he said I pray to God for everyone. I said okay but pray for me specially by calling my name. He said no! I thinked what! What is he saying. Then I asked why sir? He said only one sentence and I think it’s the golden sentence and life changing moment for me that changed my all perceptions and ideas. The sentence was,” at the day of resurrection, when Allah SWT asks me you prayed me and asked for the blessing for that person by specially calling his name but what about others! Aren’t they are my creation. You didn’t pray for them because they didn’t said you.” He said then what should I reply . He said pray for everyone. Everyone to whom you know or whom you don’t.
From that day, I started to talk to others with politeness and happily. And listen to their story of life. What they want, what’s their goal, what are their conditions etc. And after sometime I really got impressed when in public place someone comes to me and said Salam, how are you etc. I become happy and think I won his heart. He is interested in me. He cares for me. So what’s the conclusion! In my opinion the point that I gotted is that people love and care about you only when you show interest in them and think about them by place yourself at their position and feel how they feel at this situation. Feel the happiness and pain of their heart. That’s the way of spreading happiness all over the world and the world will remember you forever.
