I don’t care whether or not you find my tone “offensive,” “smug” or “disparaging.” Maybe I’d care if you were my wife. For the record, I find your tone arrogant and petulant. Do you care? Probably not. So let’s focus on content. Oh wait … you don’t really have much content, do you?
As for the one thing you say, viz., that my approach is ignoring the problem, I’m not ignoring any problem. I describe in this article why retiring the concept of race entirely is the best approach for blacks and whites alike, and one of the things I explain, citing lots of data, is that paying attention to race and racism in the way we’ve been doing recently actually makes people more racist.