Reminds me of that movie, Runaway Bride. How do you like your eggs prepared? ;)
I too, was a relationship chameleon becoming whatever I thought the other person truly wanted and needed me to be. It never led to lasting love or successful long-term relationships though.
What I didn’t understand then but I do understand now, is that it was truly a blessing in disguise that none of those relationships actually worked out. Eventually, I would have ended up resenting the role I had to play and the person I had to play it for, even though I was the one who created those expectations in the first place. Hindsight is 20/20 though, isn’t it?