*sigh. This makes sense to some extent but I’m telling you, the best and only way to know ‘the one’ is to ask the One who made you both and knows you more than the sparrow knows the sky. God has all the answers and doesn’t want us going through life in a testing-the-water mode.
The answer is simple really; whether 4 years or 4 days,pray. Just pray. And listen.
Happy for you two 😊. I really hope it lasts.