A guy wanted to follow me when I moved to CA for undergrad. I didn’t let him because he’d have had to pay out-of-state tuition at a community college…and I didn’t realize that back then, CA CC out of state tuition was about the same as our home state’s in-state tuition. Since he didn’t have help to pay for it and I didn’t want him to get super in debt on my part, I told him no. So we broke up since he didn’t want to do a long distance thing. There’s a 99.9% chance it was for the best in the long run because we were both really young and with youth comes idiocy, but I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had let him tag along.