THE LIFE OF AN INTROVERT
Hello bloggers,
Thanks for visiting my blog and reading what I have to say. If you have not read ‘My first blog’ then please read it first.
IMAGINE a small girl who is very quite. she doesn’t like to mingle with anyone in particular, just likes to spend her time with her books, feels shy in talking to someone whom she has just met, sits in the corner of the room if in a party and if there is any possibility then avoids parties.
BUT there is a other side of the story too. she loves music and dance madly to the beats when no one is around, Secretly hopes that one day she can speak what she wants to but her confidence vanishes as she has to face a group of people. Moreover she gets shivers of fright even thinking about it.
WELL THEN LET ME TELL YOU THIS GIRL WAS ME!!
Overcoming this was the worst phase of life till now. Getting up every day and thinking that you have a world to face is a difficult task.
SO this particular blog is for those who have faced this in their lives and had the power to overcome and for those who are yet to overcome. BUT PLEASE REMEMBER IMAGINING PEOPLE NAKED WHILE TAKING TO THEM WILL DO NO GOOD,and i mentioned this because this was the response I got from various sites when I searched for the tricks to overcome my fears of taking to someone.
Some simple and very easy tricks can be followed to overcome your introvert nature.
- Think that the people you are going to talk to will not judge you no matter whatever you say AS IF YOU ARE STARTING FROM A CLEAN SLATE.
- STOP spending time alone. This will definitely ruin you.
- Start small talks with anyone who gives you a lending ear.
- Expand your social network.
- Make it about them(the person you are talking to) so that it becomes comfortable for you.
- AT LAST DROP THE TITLE OF INTROVERT ALTOGETHER.
Try these strategies and then possibly you can overcome the panic that arises within you. Taking helps my friends.
Remember being introvert is not a disease. It is a nature that you have adapted because of the surroundings or due to the lack of proper guidance. BUT believe me eventually you’ll able to break the shell and fly high if you try your best.


HAVE YOU EVER FACED SUCH SITUATIONS AND WERE YOU ABLE TO OVERCOME THEM? PLEASE WRITE AND SHARE!!