For me, this just shows nothing happens by chance but by design. We might not like it or understand it or even want to accept it, but we can’t live forever with our head in the sand. This is a sad situation and wonder if there is any salvation possible.
I think this quote by Richard Bach fits in perfectly:
”Nothing happens by chance, my friend… No such thing as luck. A meaning behind every little thing, and such a meaning behind this. Part for you, part for me, may not see it all real clear right now, but we will, before long.”