Not every person who solicits or asks for sex from another really wants sex. The first step to better sex, for you, is to step back and assess whether or not the person asking you for it really wants a sexual encounter, or if they’re looking for something else.
In my work as an intimacy coach and intuitive bodyworker, I’ve come to understand a few things:
- People who are the most sex-motivated often need something other than sex
- Sexual dysfunction is prevalent in both sexes, and lack of intimacy seems to play a big role.