Thank you for sharing a bit of your story. 10/7/16 was a good — a great day for me/Us. I would never have imagined that in two more weeks from that date, I would lose My Love and a part of myself. I am hoping that as the time continues to pass, I can one day find my answer to that old adage. I grieve for you, too, and have a special place in my heart for lovers that have lost their lovers.