
…who has to make a decision in the face of ambiguity, with incomplete or inadequate information, (b) it trains you to always have a point of view regardless of your level of expertise on the subject/topic (this lesson can prove detrimental if overused as I learned during my stint as a consultant), (c) your learning is aided by the collective wisdom of 90 bright and passionate students with dive…
do everyth…d to pretend it’s fine that everything we do or think or wear or say yes or no to is somehow wrong. We can’t afford to act like it’s okay that “Girls can do anything!” got translated somewhere along the line into “Women must do everything.” We can’t afford to live lives we have to fool our own central nervous systems into tolerating.
…ntly absorbing or high-stakes or pleasurable that we won’t try to alter our natural response to it? Maybe women are so busy faking it — to be more like a man at work, more like a porn star in bed, more like 30 at 50 — that we don’t trust our natural responses anymore. Maybe all that wine is an Instagram filter for our own lives, so we don’t see how sallow and cracked they’ve become.