True. We should look for positive little things.
My reference to change is the definition of Patriotism links to some of the reflections, I see in India. For example, In India, it is mandatory to play national anthem in theaters and multiplexes before the shows — which is a good thing. So, people stand in respect. But, there have been cases, where a physically disabled person was judged, ridiculed and asked to leave the theater — since he didn’t stand to offer respect towards the anthem. This is wrong. Patriotism shouldn’t be imposed.
But, having said this, I realize your words — finding the positives and sharing them. That is in our control. Negativity only leads to more separation.