Pierce ArnerADHD & Memory — What IS Forgetting?One of the things that I remember most vividly about the first time I was on medication for my ADHD was that I got to experience what…Oct 26, 20201Oct 26, 20201
Pierce ArnerReflecting on Vulnerable NarcissismOne of the most telling signs of Narcissism is what’s called mirroring. This is how they attach to you so easily, and also how eventually…Oct 22, 2020Oct 22, 2020
Pierce ArnerHow Stonewalling Turns Victims into Abusers & Makes Real Victims “Toxic”Whether it’s a toxic friend, abusive ex, or even the current sociopolitical climate, the narcissistic mindset always ends up projecting…Jul 2, 20204Jul 2, 20204
Pierce ArnerADHD & the Failures of Modern SocietyWe sing babies to sleep, and we read kids bedtime stories. These are some things that are age-old & just generally understood as the way…May 22, 2020May 22, 2020
Pierce ArnerAccountability & Appropriate InactionSee how often you think one of these two statements:May 16, 2020May 16, 2020
Pierce ArnerThought Traps When Helping Others & Understanding OurselvesThe phrase, “The exception that proves the rule.” refers an often implicitly obvious function or state being understood specifically…May 2, 2020May 2, 2020
Pierce ArnerEmotional Regulation Systems & LoveThe three Emotional Regulation Systems that our brain uses as described by Paul Gilbert, PhD, are as follows:Apr 28, 2020Apr 28, 2020
Pierce ArnerThe Self-Empowerment Death Sentence: Mistaking, “Do I Belong?” for, “Do I matter?” part 2Identifying Failure in Mattering Vs. Belonging ConnectionsMar 22, 2020Mar 22, 2020
Pierce ArnerThe Self-Empowerment Death Sentence: Mistaking, “Do I Belong?” for, “Do I matter?” part 1The Ultimate Drive for Esteem & Self-ActualizationMar 22, 2020Mar 22, 2020
Pierce ArnerLeftover Sushi — When Self-Focus Transforms Healing Into Poison in Anxious-Avoidant RelationshipsAnxious & Avoidant are struggling; Anxious misses having meals together, Avoidant misses choosing their own meals. Sushi is their…Feb 6, 20201Feb 6, 20201