I was really digging your posts, then I found this. Is this the impression you want potential clients to have? That you don’t like socialising and don’t have any empathy towards guys making some sort of effort?
I think you need to stop dropping hints and learn to be polite and more direct in your rejection by the sounds of it.
If you had a guy talking to you for 20 minutes against your wishes, that is not his fault. It’s yours. Learn to say no in a more direct way maybe?
Was looking to hire a designer and was really into your content but then I found this. Pretty shitty stuff if I’m honest.