I quickly got over my disappointment of not getting my beloved Kirk Franklin-type music and started Shakitiboboing and dancing along to E Ji Jo Fuji Jesu Larin rin…. E be re mole ke ma ra, ele wa upstanding kemajo.
As much as it depends on you, be at peace with all men. If I wasn’t friendly with Peter all those months back, my experiment would have failed.
1. Getting stuck is part of the process.
Saying no is hard. If you are worried about how people will feel if you turned them down, remember it’s always worse when you disappoint them. I had to learn this the hard way, ruining a perfectly good relationship along the way.
Know a few military boys. Or Area Boys. Or both.
2. You don’t need a fucking Bootstrap