SEX LIES (Singles’ Version)

Many singles have lost their ‘pride’ to the lies that abound; Many more have sold and lost their ‘birth rights’ on the basis of one or more of the under-listed points…

A lot of folks (girls/ladies especially), have fallen short of their true identity on the alter of lies such as the under listed:

  1. Everyone does IT


3. If you love me, you will have sex with me

4. IT will make us CLOSER


6. Virgins experience excruciating menstrual pains, so give it up!

7. Virgins are naive and ignorant

8. Sex eases the pressure and pain caused by accumulated sperm due to long period of abstinence

9. Condom guarantees SAFE SEX

10. It’s OK to do sex since we’re engaged and scheduled to get married ‘tomorrow’ (or sometime soon)

11. IT’S fine, so long as you are faithful to ONE PERSON

12. Sex is the whole essence or idea of A RELATIONSHIP

13. If you ain’t giving IT to me, you sure are giving IT to someone else

14. Sex is A MEANS to AN END

15. If he/she is good in bed, he/ she will make a great husband/wife

16. Doing it JUST THIS ONCE shouldn’t be too much to ask

17. If I don’t give him/her, I will lose him/her

18. I can sleep around while I am single, I’ll be faithful once I get married

19. After all, I am no longer a virgin, what is left to keep…

20. Virginity, especially for someone above 25 is probably some kind of curse or jinx

… and the list goes on …

Here is the Truth: Its natural to fall for deceptions and lies when we are void of the undiluted TRUTH of the word of God.

Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices”. (2 Corinthians 2:11; KJV)

Originally published at on February 18, 2015.