I’m suggesting that this is not a legal system, it’s a website where common people write. I’m suggesting you don’t have “meaningful discourse” in a legal system, you have an interrogation. I don’t get why you try to conflate a legal interrogation and meaningful discourse as if they were one thing. I’m pointing out that nobody likes feeling forcefully seated on the accused chair. Even when you think they sat themselves there in the first place.
As for me being “obstructionist”, I’m merely pointing out that going for the throat will not yield results, as evidenced by the lack of answers SFyimby got. But hey, try again, maybe this time Talia will answer.