Oh, dude, you have no idea how obvious it is that you’re a white man. And no, of course that doesn’t make you a villain. Even the fact that you’re super comfortable with the status quo where you don’t have to care about anyone else’s systemic oppression doesn’t make you a villain.
The sexual harassment thing, however, is pretty gross. Not to mention the tremendous arrogance and misogyny involved in telling me i should “know my place”.