Hi Puji, I do sympathize of what you have experienced. Thanks also for your eagerness to share your unpleasant experience so others can take lesson as well. Giving the idea of what you have stated above, where you come from the country which still struggling with sexual violence problems, it really gives me hard time to comprehend, why would you think it’s safe to share a flat with an opposite sex host(s) in the first place?

Wouldn’t it be better if you add one more point, stating that it is better not (or to take strong precautions) to share a flat with an opposite host/guest.

Most of all as a fellow Indonesian who staying abroad, I am relieved to hear that you are doing fine.