Mysterious?!? While I get how the ocean might be enticing -I myself love the sea- what the hell is the mystery about being beaten and treated like a doormat?!?! And not to speak about the pleasure/pain BS ‘philosophy’! (I can barely refrain myself from vituperating right now). Those people either are very, very stupid and mentally deranged, or they had very nice cushy lives or had it good in general and want the opposite out of boredom. I’ll stop now, before I wake sleeping dogs.