Afshan Kiran
Jul 28, 2017 · 2 min read

Different people, Different Taste.

HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE.

It was about 10 am at Mayo Hospital Lahore. I was on duty when a girl continuously hitting my back and asking me to help, I looked back and interrogate her what’s disfigure with her? She was looking pessimistic and said I am in hurry please give me some time. I carefully listened her and pay noticed about her condition. She was suffering from breast cancer and in my cognizance she was at stage IV. Presumably she had five months hard to left. I annexed and start asking about her. The more I asked the more I became interested in her. We gave up our conversation by putting into words that we indulged in enjoyable recollection of this chalk talk.

I throw light upon this occurrence to elaborate how a conversation can be more thought provoking or enthralling with people. In my sense it is all about your own complexion that how you deal with people of different taste.

On the roads of life we came across with bounteous people with multifarious mentality. Some are so generous that their magnanimous personality cheer you every time. My mother always profess me that if you stumble upon icky one then show your positive face and embolden him to fix considerable things.

During my interested challenge I did conversation with many people and come up with so many new acquaintance. Just like a music band there are many different instruments with different melodies. Each band is different, each band has different concept just like different personalities with different tastes. Some of my outcome:

1. I talked to one of my neighbor and asked: How are you working these days? She responded with a story that it is not doing so well. She was facing financial problem and various other issues. After that she asked me for help. This make me feel out of the ordinary that conversation can be a great trial to assist others.

2. I texted to one of my fellow: Hi, how are you? She answered: who? This make me surprised and I realized that people X-out your contact after leaving university. :D

3. I asked to one of my friend that how are you doing these days? She interrogate me that you tell me first what are you doing these days? This made me flabbergasted that how people judged others and feel creepy to tell about theirs.

4. Some people replied me of this question “How are you? How are you doing”

In a very short form like: “Fine and nothing” :D

5. Many of my people didn’t replied, even after a day.

So in my acknowledgment, there are so many different walks of life, so many different personalities in the world. And no longer do you have to be a chameleon and try and adapt to that environment — you can truly be yourself. I’ve never believed much in that holding hands kind of love. I’ve always thought that love is about two different personalities trying to confront life, trying to make sense of their responsibilities, to themselves, to each other, and to the wider society.