I certainly never want to be in a relationship with someone like the author. In the past I would take a Ball Breaker like that out for ice cream and they would say.
BB Why do you want to be in a relationship?
Me I don’t know. It seems like a good idea.
BB Why does it seem like a good idea?
Me Can’t you just let me eat my ice cream in peace.
BB Why do you want to eat ice cream when you are so fat?
Now what do I do? Do I take a stand and stand up and lose my ice cream by leaving. I think she is only doing it so she can get my ice cream. I can’t explain to someone like that that there are no reason for wants. The wants that seems stupid are wants you don’t want. Your wants are just as dumb to someone else. It never is I will tell someone they shouldn't want what they want and they will thank me like in an anti-drug commercial. Telling people their choices are dumb has never worked in the history of the world but naggers have never learned anything in the history of the world either. We are social animals and everyone is constantly involved in relationships. The idea that it is some how better to avoid them is stupid because we can’t. However we can learn to avoid annoying people who think they know everything.