To be interesting, Be Interested

Ahmad Muneeb
Nov 1 · 2 min read

By reading the famous book “How to make Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie I came to know the basic sense of human psychology. Every person on this planet is trying to get attention by others and this is because we love the person who shows interest in us in any manner. May be he is appreciating our work or liking our personality or support our arguments.

The point is why we do so? Why do we want other people to like us but we don’t like them? The Human psychology works on the principle of “ Give and Take” so it means if we wanted to be liked, we should also like the other person in return.

Listen others… They will Follow you Forever

There are three basic rules of how you should be interested in people than interesting..

  1. Be Gentle in Conversation.
  2. Respect their Arguments.
  3. Don’t try to become Over Smart.

Every person considers himself/herself the Smartest individual on The entire Earth but My point is than why other 7 billion people are on this planet. Respect is the most Powerful key founded in Successful people.

Be You… The World will Adjust

By John Wooden saying we should try to understand other people’s feelings and their emotions. Being interested means that you genuinely attached with other people and the automatically attached with you.

Listen to their problems which they want to share with you and try hard to solve them. Appreciate the work of your colleagues which keeps them motivated. Once you show interest in others the will Interested in you and this makes a long earned relationship

“Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow ripening fruit”

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