Experiencing Extroversion
What can you get if you compel an introvert to go out and hang out with people? Turns out you can shake things up and form new connections and inspire a new dimension.
That is exactly what happened to me. As an introvert, i never tried to converse with people and maintained a very tight circle of acquaintance. That certainly helped me polish my individual qualities such as research.
But when i put myself into socializing, i discovered that i had tapped into another dimension of myself. Since the start of Amal fellowship, i have increased contact with people and this has significantly boosted my confidence and communication proficiency.
So when i saw this project of “ Being interested”, i knew that i am going to discover something new. I talked with people for 10- 15 minutes and it is surprising that how much information you can get about a topic when you ask the right questions. I met with my distant family members and old friends and i found out that everybody has a desire to be respected and if you are building and improving on connections then you need to keep in touch.
Finally i found out i am not an introvert but an ambivert i.e i sometimes like to keep distance and sometimes find people’s company more enjoyable. I am happy and will try to maintain a healthy balance between these two. And off course i will apply my newly found skill in real life as well.
You can try too to see what your psychology matches to and then improve your relationships.