Embracing Radiance: The Allure of Inner Beauty

Annie Laraib
7 min readAug 2, 2023

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You’ve definitely heard the phrase “inner beauty” many times and probably wondered what exactly it meant. The term “inner beauty” refers to a person’s internal qualities and virtues that influence their interactions with others, values, and character. Although physical attractiveness could immediately catch people’s attention. Others can argue that it is easy for a person to say that inner beauty counts because they have attractive outer appearances.

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The topic of real beauty has been debated for many years. Has the inner self been ignored to the point where we humans praise the attributes of physical beauty? Unfortunately, the definition of “beauty” does not include traits like a giving nature, selflessness, and kindness.

It brings up images of bombastic supermodels or actresses with the kind of body and face that men desire, rather than a kind, humble person. It’s challenging (if not virtually impossible) to remain confident in your own skin, exactly the way you naturally are, in the age of numerous TV shows that promote plastic surgery and other “improvements” to one’s physical appearance. It’s understandable why so many of today’s young people struggle with depression, anxiety, and bad thoughts if one looks at how the media and celebrities emphasize outer beauty above inner beauty.

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Surrounded by toxic ideals that are all across the news and billboards that feature unattainable supermodels with their edited skin praised and impossible-to-have waists in the center, it makes all those “regular”-appearing people feel unworthy, unpretty, and undesirable. But since it sends the wrong message, it’s time to stop putting so much pressure on people-particularly young girls-to look a specific way. As a woman in this new modern day of fallen ideals, I frequently come across girls of various shapes, sizes, and physical characteristics with that obvious type of outer beauty that just radiates from them at first glance. And you know what I’ve learned? That people who are damn gorgeous are much more sad from within (sad but true) than the people who don’t resemble any supermodels, actors, or actresses are much more calm, happy, and peaceful, enjoying their lives at their best without caring about others opinions.

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That, sadly, is the reality we inhabit. Your physical attractiveness has materialistic benefits that are initially appealing, but ultimately you start to feel an almost tangible emotional cost that consumes you.

And if you happen to be one of those individuals looking for greater meaning in life and seeking a more comfortable lifestyle based on real values, I can assist you in achieving that.

In this article, I’ll talk about the road to inner beauty and how to find inner peace by embracing, achieving, and appreciating your true inner beauty.

True pleasure comes from committing yourself to a higher moral standard while maintaining self-confidence in your attractiveness.

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Self-acceptance

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Inner beauty starts with a strong appreciation for and knowledge of who you are. Accept your weaknesses, build on your talents, and let go of your unrealistic expectations. Respect your individuality and cultivate a healthy relationship with yourself. When you truly accept who you are, inner beauty can grow.

Accept your body as it is. Instead of comparing yourself to others, begin to cherish what nature has given you. Nobody is flawless! Nobody can dominate you until you give them the chance.

Begin observing how others perceive you and come to the realization that your intellect, kindness, and humility, not your physical appearance, are what truly define you.

Your path to inner beauty begins with loving yourself and cultivating a positive attitude toward yourself.

Cultivate Kindness

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The language of the soul is kindness. Act with kindness towards both yourself and other people. Do random acts of kindness, offer a helping hand, and show compassion to those who are around you. Your inner beauty radiates when compassion is deeply rooted in who you are.

You can also be kind to yourself by smiling at yourself when you’re looking in the mirror.

You hardly ever smile when looking in the mirror because you’re constantly focused on anything unattractive about your head, face, or hair. This instantly elicits negative feelings and lowers your self-worth.

And what’s this? If you keep torturing yourself like that, you’re one step closer to complete destruction.

So keep smiling:)

Surround yourself with positivity

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Being in a positive environment is like creating a flourishing garden for your spirit. It entails creating a space that supports your overall wellbeing and inspires your spirit. Find people that exude positivity, empathy, and encouragement; they will serve as your journey’s pillars of support.

Engage in relationships that are meaningful, encourage development, and motivate you to become the best version of yourself. Having a strong support network to go through obstacles rather than avoid them is what it means to be surrounded by positive influences. It entails immersing oneself in a group of people who acknowledge your accomplishments, sympathize with your challenges, and guide you towards personal growth.

Avoid negative influences that sap your energy and confidence, and prioritize activities that nourish your mind, body, and spirit. By cultivating a supportive environment around you, you lay the groundwork for courage, self-love, and a strong belief in your own value, giving you the power to exude your inner beauty and motivate others to do the same.

Redefine beauty on your terms

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Redefining beauty on your terms is a liberating act of self-discovery and empowerment. It starts with rejecting the restrictive and frequently unattainable social norms that define what is considered attractive. Accept the idea that true beauty lies in the genuineness of who you are as a person and transcends outward appearance.

Celebrate your distinctive characteristics since they are the brushstrokes that help to paint the picture of your life story. Realize that true beauty is a manifestation of the brilliant energy that comes from your heart and soul and is not restricted to a certain size, shape, or color.

Accept the traits that make you a sensitive, sincere, and kind person. Change your attention from seeking approval from others to seeking inner satisfaction, and take comfort in the fact that only you can judge your own level of self-acceptance. By defining beauty according to your standards, you not only free yourself from the weight of comparison but also encourage others to embrace their individuality and start their own journeys of self-love and acceptance.

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Embracing inner beauty and self-love is a profound and ongoing transformative journey that requires unwavering patience, dedication, and self-compassion. It starts with a conscious decision to break free from the shackles of self-doubt and negative self-perception. By acknowledging and challenging the limiting beliefs that once held us captive, we liberate ourselves to embrace our true essence and redefine beauty on our terms. We learn to see beauty not just as a superficial attribute but as a radiant light that emanates from within, reflecting our authenticity, kindness, and inner strength.

In this empowering journey, we discover that self-love is not self-indulgence; rather, it forms the foundation for all other forms of love and compassion in our lives. As we cultivate self-love, it acts as a beacon, guiding us towards making choices that align with our values and passions. We let go of the need for external validation and understand that our worth is not contingent upon the opinions of others.

Surrounding ourselves with positivity becomes a deliberate act of self-preservation. We create a supportive environment that uplifts us, where toxic influences are minimized or eliminated. We seek out individuals and communities that embrace diversity and appreciate the beauty of uniqueness. By surrounding ourselves with positivity, we nourish our growth, resilience, and sense of belonging.

As we continue on this journey, our inner beauty blooms, shining brightly and inspiring others around us. We become role models for future generations, showing them that embracing their true selves is a courageous and rewarding path. By leading with self-love, we teach them that the capacity to love others begins with loving oneself first.

In this way, we contribute to creating a world where self-love and positive values are celebrated, and where compassion and empathy are at the heart of our connections with others. As we strive to nurture our inner beauty, we become agents of positive change, leaving a legacy that inspires others to embark on their own paths of self-discovery and inner growth. Together, we pave the way for a more loving, accepting, and harmonious world, where the radiance of inner beauty illuminates the darkness and transforms lives for generations to come.

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Annie Laraib
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