Evidence The Law Of Attraction Exists … And How To Use It To Get What You Want

I like science.

I need proof of things to make sure I’m not spouting bullshit.

But there are things that’ve happened in my life where I’m all like, ‘Holy crapola!! How did THIS happen?’

So I want to explain to you HOW it works … and how to use it yourself to make what you want happen too.

Here are some examples;

1. When I was in Costa Rica, I was finishing a house sitting gig.

So I visualised my next gig in a beautiful apartment, overlooking the beach that was next to a national park so I could see sloths, toucans and other wildlife every day.

The next day I get a message that someone’s looking for a sitter.

She lives in Manuel Antonio. Which has the most visited national park in Costa Rica and is on the ocean.

2. Back in Mexico. I visualised pet sitting in a luxury apartment with a rooftop pool, right in the heart of the action of Playa del Carmen.

I get a gig sitting at Terazza apartments (where I’ve now decided I’ll live when I go back there).

3. 5 years ago I declared to friends I was ready for love. I wanted a guy who loved to travel and move around.

6 weeks later I met my ex who whisked me off to Europe within 3 weeks of being together and we spent our entire relationship living in different places around the country.

4. 6 months ago I visualised living in THIS EXACT APARTMENT.

5. When I was 21 I came off an 18–35’s tour wanting to do it for a job. 4 years later I lived with 3 people in Alice Springs who used to work for THAT company.

I got the job.

Ok?

I could go on and on but you get my point.

So how did I do this? And why the hell is it so magic anyway?

1. Detailed Clarity

I got CLEAR about what I wanted. I visualised me already doing it and felt the emotions I’d feel if I was actually experiencing it.

This trained my brain to believe it was already happening which created an output of behaviours & awareness that sent me in that direction.

In Psychology they call it ‘Cognitive Bias’ where, when you have a belief about something, you then seek out evidence to back up that belief.

If you’re not clear, then you don’t know what you’re looking for.

So you’ll miss thousands of signs & opportunities that are already happening around you right now.

2. Put It Out There

People already knew I was house sitting … or wanted that job … or was looking for love.

There’s ALWAYS someone who knows someone who knows someone that can hook you up.

So once you’re clear about what you want, let people know (just be careful of naysayers & negative nancys who might taint your goals).

3. Believe It

Any self doubt will block it — because it messes with your output of behaviour … or your confidence to put yourself out there fully.

This requires a bit of training (like muscles at the gym) — so teach yourself the power of belief every single day.

You have to be bull-headed about this.

It might feel a bit arrogant to declare you want something so boldly … but it clears the flow of energy between you and what you want.

Any negativity blocks it (like putting your hand over the sun).

So daydream the shit out of it until it feels real to you … and speak about it as if it’s a DONE DEAL!

4. What Do You Need To Learn/What Resources Do You Need?

Are there skills you’re lacking? Knowledge or experience you need?

For example, if you want to find love, but struggle with engaging with the opposite sex, then learn how to confidently interact with them.

If you want to make a million dollars a year, then figure out what avenue you want to take to achieve that … and study & implement like crazy.

5. Be Patient

It might not happen overnight.

It could take days, weeks, months or years. This depends on how BIG this desire is, your level of knowledge, skills, experience … and how certain you are about it.

It WILL happen. You just need to let it come to you in its own time.

Happy manifesting campers!

Ains

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Ainsley M — Over 30. Single. Unleashed!

Self Love, Attraction & Confidence Coach ~Follow Me For Daily Mind, Body, Love & Lifestyle Advice~

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