Arfa Irfan
Nov 1 · 2 min read

How to Conquer Hearts
Since the world came into existence, people whether they are aged, children or whether they are young, everyone wants to be loved, to be appreciated and supported by their loved ones. It’s a human nature. In early 90s, people used to understand each other’s situations. They were more understanding than we are. Understanding someone’s situations is the key to conquer hearts even when they hurt you but you don’t hurt them back because you understand. Because you are kind and gentle. It’s hard to put yourself apart and understand someone’s situation but this humbleness will make you a divine soul in someone’s eyes. Because you do not kill them by the hatred, you kill them by love. Love is more powerful, more peaceful. The more you become humble, the more you add value for yourself in people’s mind.
It hurts when people call each other “snakes”, even their friends. It’s because people want to be understood but are not willing to be understanding. Nature of understanding is a meekness and meekness is not a weakness but an absolute power under perfect control. We all are humans not snakes, we look same, we talk in the same language, we live in a same country, we all are thirsty for love.
Keep understanding people and people will understand you. Show interest in people and they will automatically take interest in you 
The lesson I learned is that being interested is more powerful than being interesting!