One more person missing the visitor’s list! I used to see OkC as a great site. Despite the fact that 99 % of the messages I get come from romance scammers or copy-and-pest-guys who never cared to read a line. Now that all the features that made me stay no matter what are vanishing I am not sure about my future on here. Being manipulatively forced to write first and being ignored in return most of the time adds a lot of negative vibes to the experience. Please give the VL back. I will appreciate it very much.