#Maybeshedoesnthurtyou

Aisyah
Aisyah
Sep 3, 2018 · 2 min read

May 2, 2018

Recently i stumbled upon the hashtag #maybeshedoesnthurt you on Twitter. It was really discouraging to found that society didn’t really get the concept of gender equality.

Honestly, if i claim myself as a feminist, but then hit my brother’s face just because he is 3 minutes late to pick me up, then i would be a disgrace of feminism. Why? Because it counts as being inconsiderate of other human being. It. Fucking. Counts.

Regardless of your gender, abuse is abuse. The most heart-breaking part of this hashtag is, it already has 225+ threads and most of them are about unspoken stories of domestic violence towards men. It’s enough to proof that our society is messed up in many levels. Don’t scream around trying to encourage women to stand up against rape if you couldn’t stop what cause the rape itself.

Yes, rape is unforgivable. However, can you imagine a guy that had survived through long time abuse done by his ex-wife, and then he held grudges to every women he sees? Sure, rape is awful, gross, and an absolute crime, but do you ever think of what the root behind the rapists’ intention itself?

We can never know. It’s a part of mystery that what actually drive those guilty men to wake their desire to dominate women, practice patriarchy, rape, or sexually harassing women. But, neither we will never now how powerful the impact of abuse that can turns on the evil side of somebody, that can create an endless chain of hatred, that eventually will lead to crimes that target us, women, as victim.

Yes, fuck all those assholes. But, fuck y’all bitches who think men are some soft, warm teddy bear whom you could turn all your anger and negative emotions to. Poor teddy bear dolls will eventually wrecked, and you think you can just throw them away?

Fuck bitches who turned innocent men into beasts then pass the blame for all the problems them bitches caused, and call themselves as feminists. Fuck you all.

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