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You may be thinking to yourself… isn’t all help good help? No. Recently I have had helped offered to me, and while the helper had good intentions it was hard to accept because it came with so many unexpected things. The person who offered the help did so for their own conscience, in the way that they wanted, and wanted constant praise for it.

In my belief system, most times when I receive a compliment I say “All Praise to The Most High.” …


Let’s face it. Dating can be hard these days. I would say its due to the lack of communication on both the side of men and women, but many would argue its because men are trash. How are trash men made? They are raised by trash parents.

Forgive my frankness but I am quite appalled at what I heard today. I had a conversation with a relative (a woman who admittedly hates women) who justified her son beating an elderly man in his 90’s. The man was left bloody.

When I gave a grunt of disapproval she gave every reason under the sun to justify her son’s actions. I sat on the phone and let her talk (being respectful because of her age as her son should have been to the man he beat). She explained that the man was irritating and someone was going to hit him anyway. She said her son should not have done it, but she understands why he did. Her son has a history of abusing other people including but not limited to women. I have heard her deny that he would hit a woman and make excuses for his abusive behavior EVEN THOUGH she has been in an abusive relationship herself. …


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Let me start by saying that I have been a long time fan of hair weaves! I have had every color weave you can think of. Hair weaves give us the versatility to do so many different looks. Hair weaves can be so much fun. In high school I wore so many weaves people would joke and say it’s a wonder my hair hadn’t fall out.

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Hair weaves can be expensive. It isn’t unheard of for a weave to cost hundreds of dollars. As a matter of fact, if your weave isn’t hundreds of dollars, and your cousin or friend isn’t doing it, you may want to second guess if you want that person to do your hair. …

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