I think women crave a lot of things. Probably more so, or to a greater extent without acting, than men, because men tend to be far more action oriented.
The impact of testosterone is that it compels ACTION. Women have very complex internal worlds, to be sure. But action? Men are compelled to act.
And women KNOW men are compelled to act. And men know women know. Regardless of cravings, this deeply affects both sexes’ strategies for pursuing what they crave.
I strongly suggest checking out the “This American Life” episode on testosterone. https://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/220/testosterone