So again why would I as a male prefer to be poor and alone vs poor and with my kids?
This is why progressivism has reached its limit. You say “this is better for me and women.” Ok, good for you. I say “but it’s worse for me and men.” And you say “So? You fix that or its too bad for you. It’s better for me and women.”
I see that. That’s the problem with modern feminism. I see that it’s better for women and worse for me. I see that you don’t care it’s worse for me. So what do I do? Well, I treat you the way you treat me.