What is better than argument?

Akindele Tayo
2 min readAug 29, 2023

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Argument is unavoidable in almost every social gatherings. But it is well appreciated if it is done calmly and patiently.

You are been having a serious argument with him whether he or she would comply. The truth is argument brings about disagreement. But rather, speak to him and earn what you are seeking, and argue to pay for it or lose the aim.

I am the ring leader of arguments. I argue a lot. But then, I have never caused any violence or propelled social violence and vices through my argument .

Every man has an interest or interests that drives him to a group. But the interest would become the group interest after he has signed an agreement to join the group.

You have many interest. But you do not have the resources to activate your aims, then this article is for you.

In this article, I am going to tell the ways of getting what you want without resulting to violence. Here are some of the strategies I deviced:

Solution

  • Speak patiently and calmly with them
  • Rather than argue, plead with them
  • When arguement is about to set in, remind him of you withholding the next help
  • Threaten him with an arrest and prosecution
  • Threaten him with an angry mob help
  • Pray to God about it
  • Do not beat him
  • Forgive him, if he does not have the money to repay you

Forgive and let go

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Akindele Tayo
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Creative writer, social engineer, software engineer, a scholar, a fabricator, amongst others