If you’re currently in something and you don’t believe it’s heathly, it doesn’t mean to end it. The next question is what can you do to turn your love from unhealthy to healthy? And yes, you’re only fifty percent of that equation and it fluctuates. Unhealthy can turn healthy and vice versa. That’s why love takes constant work. That’s the journey. The daily work on self and the relatioship it takes to build. And you are either doing that work to build healthy love or you are not.
Healthy love is a choice. It is something you decide to give as a gift. It is doing life with not at. It shapes the self and strengthen the other. Healthy love is feeling powerful and independent. It is grilled cheese and vegetable soup on a rainy day but not every day. Healthy love is patient, kind and accepting. Healthy love requires a tremendous amount of responsibility which involves communication on all levels and constant reflection. It is building trust, having faith and holding a commitment. Healthy love is about acceptance and always looking inward. It promotes growth and two strong containers. Healthy love is rare.