Someone who comes over when they say they will. Someone who says “Want to come home with me for Christmas?” and then is actually still around to do these things. Most importantly I’m looking for someone who owns their imperfection and even if they can’t do these things, says “I’m really sorry, I got busy doing -x-” or “Really sorry, I still had my phone on silent from earlier” because they realize that two seconds of explanation leads to lifetimes of understanding…….. and i am still looking …. :(