beer soaked hair & freedom

This story.. Dear, god. You cannot proceed without tossing all judgement aside.

Each spring there is a good ole rootin’ tootin’, pew pew-in’, beer slingin’ time in College Station, Texas. It is called Chilifest. I went to school at Oklahoma State and my junior year of college I lived on Gray Street. We had some rowdy neighbors who were all from Texas. In February or so, they started talking to us about this thing called Chilifest.

At the time, I had already committed to a Spring Break in Panama City Beach, Florida. I was a lowly waitress and money was…


You know those people who have what seems like way too many bridesmaids in their weddings? Yeah, I’ll be one of those obnoxious people. I have too many people in my life that I love dearly. The first of many.. Dallas. This girl is one of a kind. I can pinpoint EXACTLY when our friendship began.


Most of us have memories from the early elementary years that usually involve playing at recess or competing in an art contest to win a beanie baby. I have those too, but one memory specifically changed the way I lived my life.

I was definitely an ugly duckling growing up. I had a huge obsession with dressing in my older brother’s hand me downs. Mostly because when I was in the first grade my brother and I always rode the school bus home. We lived about 7 miles east of town and we were always among the last of the…


Alright, Alright, Alright.. Why am I on here? Probably because I have a couple of friends who have begged me to put my life stories into writing. However, I possess the writing capabilities of a third grader. So if you’re reading this and you are wondering why on god’s green earth is there a comma over here, but not over there? That, my friends, is because I have no fucking clue what I am doing. Remember when we were in college and your professors would be like “hey you need to change this and add this and please don’t fucking…

Alexandra Miller

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