Also, different things are serious to different people ( duh). For me, and I’m working on this, people fighting make me very upset. I know I can’t control what other people do, but I can learn some ways to steer clear of situations like that to protect myself from…well…from hating it here, I guess.
Other people (you) are not affected by that sort of thing. I can see how it would seem silly to someone unaffected that someone else was affected, but to the person who suddenly needs to throw up over some strangers behaving terribly to one another, it doesn’t seem silly.
Can you understand that?