Highlighted by Alexander Nakhnikian
From Holy shit, being an ally isn’t about me! by Real Talk: WOC & Allies
Once I gleaned this tiny bit of enlightenment — it wasn’t about me or for me, my feelings are not all that important here, do the work or hit the road, no pats on the back for treating POC as worthy human beings — this became my “He’s Just Not That Into You” AHA moment of clarity.