This is one of the most unshakeable things — one of the hardest lessons — that I’ve ever had to learn. I’m still in the process of it, but I’ve managed to live in the same place for almost three years now and that’s huge. It’s one of those things that I think cements itself as either normal or abnormal by late childhood. Just wanted to tell you that this hit home for me. I’m new here, I read a lot and never write, but I had to comment on this. It reached out to me.