If you are against Segwit because you think it is a “contentious fork” then the only thing you can…

I’m not against it, I’m merely stating facts (that’s annoying, I know).

Even if most of you people does not accept it, there are miners that do not accept segwit alone and would accept it with an hard fork raising the block size and fixing other things that an hard fork can fix (like technical debt).

So, you are wrong: segwit+other is less contentious than segwit alone, at least in a big chunk of miners (and we need them to secure the chain, you know).