This was gut wrenching to read. Sorry you had to go through this.
But lets be clear this did not happen “…because you are a women who told a man what she really thought”. This is by no means a consequence of something that you did. Some people are just dicks man or woman. This guy cheats on his wife, kicks his dog, and tells his kids they’ll never amount to anything.
He and Uber will hopefully pay for this in some way. But the best revenge is to live a good life. Their are plenty of jobs where people are treated with respect. This is an edge case. Good luck and God bless.