It was never really about the differences.

Right, pretty new to this platform, but let’s get started anyhoo.

So, it was never really about the differences. It was never about how he loves western food and how you'd love vietnamese pho. It was never about how he loves the brightest shades of the rainbow and how you’d love the ones at the end of the colour spectrum.

In any failure in relationships, it is never really about how different two persons can be, but in fact, it is how this two person actually chooses to let the already prevalent disparity set them apart. Overtime, from walking in and out of situations, it seems like i am slowly getting it (and i'm glad this enlightenment didn’t come too late in this relationship). Whether or not you let all these negative elements affect your relationship and the extent of which it affects the two of you, is actually a choice that is made by you. It can never really get to you, if you don’t allow it to.

But I'm glad I realized it all soon enough, because you've been patient, and I can’t thankful enough for you.