How do you know when he/she is THE one?

It’s common to see girls/boys at their adolescent age to be getting in and out of relationship.
Not me.
I have this complex yet ideal idea on how I’d like to find your my “mr right”. Im only 18, i know, which is why generally I would not like to rush into things. As a matter of fact I DON’T want to find ‘him’, I want him to just enter my life and for me to realize he is THE one, we will have a to go through a few stages. Honestly, I feel as though I am not ready to be in a relationship because I feel the need to be more than just ‘good enough’ for that person. I need stability and the most important factor of all, is my need to be the best, feel the best. I probably give off the ‘not interested enough’ vibe when I say im not ready to be in a relationship, but really that’s not the case. The problem doesn’t lie with the other party, it lies with me.

(might be because of the remarks given by a few people)

The many times you get into a relationship and showcase him/her, how many times do you see yourself saying “this is it, he’s/she’s the one”?
When your kid asks you in the future about how many relationship you’ve had, saying “Oh honey, i have 10 exes”, isn’t something to be proud of. It’s different if you’re talking about the dating. I feel like any men or women can date as many people as they like (not at once), because all of us need experience. It’s true that if you don’t meet the bad ones you can never get to the right one — but getting unnecessarily hurt is plain stupid.

Being in love with someone, don’t necessarily mean you guys HAVE to be ‘girlfriend/boyfriend’. You don’t need to label yourselves simply because it’s easier for people to understand. I mean so long as you know your feelings are genuine, why does it matter?? I mean when your feelings take over everything, you act like the boyfriend or girfriend instinctively.

oh well, that’s just my opinion.
you KNOW whatever i said is the truth.