But you know what? That Goth “uniform” is helping to keep my only child, my baby boy, alive right now. So your judgement is irrelevant.
I went through a very similar stage as a teenager. I only wish my parents looked at it this way. Rock on, mama! You will be able to look back at some of the styles and laugh with him in the future, knowing you went through it together. Take pictures, one day the pain will be a memory but his transformation will be incredible!