Magic of wining hearts

A 5 years little kid went to school one day and after sending his son, his mother got busy in her house activities. After a couple of hours, the school peon knocked at the door of her house which was only five or six houses ahead from the school. His mother questioned that it is approx. two hours left till the school ends then why you are here? He replied without any delay that your son is not feeling well so go and take your son to home. His mother was shocked that what was happened to his son as she has send him well in the morning. In this state of shock, she rushed to school and took his son from his playgroup class to her house. His son was looking very upset and pale which increased the anxiety of his mother. After a couple of hours, she saw her son playing with her elder sister very diligently and calmly, she went to him and inquired that what was happened to you in the school. His son ran away without answering this question but his mother never stopped, she became angry that this kind of attitude towards his school will ruin his studies, but at last his son broke out the reason of his illness in school, he said that his teacher used to pay attention to him every day but today she did not give any attention to him even she had not glanced at him today that’s why he began to weep to record his protest which was later taken as an indication of his illness.
So, did you enjoyed this true story? You know that little kid was me, I knew at that time too that being ignored means that one is not interested in you at all and as a result I wept as a protest that I don’t want to sit in a room where no one is interested in myself, regardless of the fact that I even don’t know the meaning of “I” in interested at that time as how a 5 year kid can think about such things in his childhood? So, the moral of the story is that if someone feels that you are interested in you, then he or she too develops interest in you.
A famous writer Dale Carnegie said that you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. As an activity, a number of questions were asked from people you interact most in your daily life about themselves e.g. how are you? How are your feelings? What are you doing now a days? What are your future plans? And as a reminder these questions were asked in a limit so that others don’t get annoyed by these questions. The results or conclusions were quite simple yet predictable some of them don’t liked to be questioned personally and their attitude showed that they are not happy with this practice. Some while being questioned got so much inspired and got emotional and start telling stories that are even not asked. And irrelevant stories. And long stories. And too long stories. It is cleared that by such activity we can be in the others’ good book and win hearts of others and they can share their grief and sorrow with us.
A famous magician Thurston was very popular in his time and he used to say that his magic tricks were not so different from others but every time he went on stage, he used to say that, “I am grateful because these people come to see me, They make it possible for me to make my living in a very agreeable way. I’m going to give them the very best I possibly can.” And he was loved by people. So start thinking about others if you want others love you. Start caring about others!
