Yes I understand there some people who can not come out to their parents because it might make it worse. But that doesn’t mean they can’t come out to someone else. It’s important that victims are allowed to share their pain and suffering, this is the only way that it can eventually fade. It’s also important that victims understand that there is always someone willing to listen. Even if it’s just a kind stranger you met online. Anything is better than holding it inside and letting it destroy you.