I got the boot all of a sudden too (not the sexy one). I have a son, too, but he wasn’t the problem — still haven’t figured out what actually was, and he won’t talk, which is making the aftermath very, very, tough. Trying to de-sensitize myself to things like the word “Love,” which is why I gritted my teeth and clicked on “Open (love) letters.” Glad I did; loved your piece. Might try this myself when I am able to envision someone other than him. Have fun in Montana; wish I could go.