7 Wonders (Women) in my Life

Allwin Jashwa
7 min readSep 10, 2019

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The world has many historical, memorable places. Out of them, 7 places are termed as wonders. So does in my life, there has been an enormous number of personalities, but the below-mentioned 7 made a huge impact all through my paths.

Letzz go!🤩

Right from my childhood, I grew up hearing these words from both reel and real-life people,

“ஒவ்வொரு ஆணோட வெற்றிக்கு பின்னாடி, கண்டிப்பா ஒரு பெண் இருப்பா “ 😉

This means, “There is a woman behind every successful man”

I have no idea about this during my childhood. But, 24 years down the lane “It makes sense” in my life. 😇

I am neither a success nor a failure. But I know for sure that I’ve started marching towards the gateway called “Success” 💯

Well, right now — I am just a small fish in a big pond, entering into a vast ocean and starting to explore things.

In this journey, I’ve come across many, I wouldn’t be able to mention all of them here — — — — As they all know me well, everyone understands their importance in my life.

Women — They not only give LIFE but also TRANSFORMS One’s LIFE

I am gonna give a hint about the 7 Wonders (Women) in my life who stands tall amidst all others.

Here We Goooo! 😎

I hope you wouldn’t be surprised at all about the First woman, 🤱Yes, it’s none other than my Mom 😍

The universe has certain facts which remain constant. When any human utters those phrases, they don’t need any explanations,

  • Sun rises in the east,
  • Stars shine at night,
  • Earth revolves around the sun,
  • I have the best mom in the world 💞

Do I need to explain the importance of her in my life??

Mother 💖 the word is enough for any living being in this world to conquer.

I would do anything* 😉 to make her smile. (except haircut :P)

Whatever I’m today, Whoever I’m gonna be, is only because of her guidance and prayers 😘

Mummy, I love you, but I do know you love me more.

The second lady is someone whom I admire and adore the most. It’s such a blessing to have someone outside the family to guide you and inspire you by all means. Even though I am from a different womb, she treated, loved and cared for me, like her own 🤗

Even on her deathbed, She prayed for all the goodness that I will receive in my life ahead. I always remember her saying during my hard times, “ Allwin, don’t worry! You’ll go places”.

She has set an excellent example of how LIFE has to be lived. With all her guidance I’m trying to walk on the path of righteousness 👣

I believe She’ll feel proud seeing me from heaven.

Every time when I achieve something or I have something good to share, I miss her presence in my life 😔 miss you ma!

The Third person won’t believe me if I tell her that she’s on this list 💁

Ha Ha, it’s none other than my little sister 🙅

If my Dad is Pumba, then she is the Timon 👨‍👧

If my mom is Tom then, She is not Jerry — — — — — She is Spike who teams up with Jerry (my father) to annoy Tom 👨‍👩‍👧

Unlike other guys, I’m not the type of brother, whom you used to see more often in real life. The longest conversation we’ve had was about only 2 minutes. We never talk to each other unless there is a need, but deep inside my heart, I care for her and she knows it. Also, I get all the love and help from her, which every brother wants from a sister. Many a time I feel sorry for not being the brother which she deserves.

Making her happy is my prime aim always 😁

From fighting in childhood for silly things to sacrificing things for each others happiness, we both grew up 💝

The fourth girl, Well it really would take days for you to read if I narrate about her in detail, I feel it’s better to end with a brief note.

Every guy/man might have come across such type of girl once in their life at a particular stage who will make you understand the lyrics rather than listening to music. Because of her at a point, I was able to understand what care, affection and sacrifice are. She was the pain, She was the cure. She was the sunshine, She was the Thunderstorm. She was a rainbow, she was the thunder, She was the rain and Finally, She was a passing cloud! And I’m thankful for everything.

Wherever she goes, whatever she does, I wish all the goodness for her 💥

My respect for women ascended only because of these 4 people.

Someday, I read this quote and desperately wanted to follow this in my life,

“ Respect women, You’ll be respected”

When I decided to follow this principle, believe me………💪👍

No….. I won’t tell you what happened, you better try, follow this and experience the outcome personally 💫 It's such a Blessing!

The above four personalities knew me for years and there is no wonder why they cared for me and wanted me to achieve things.

But this Fifth Wonder Woman 👩‍⚖️ is someone, for whom I will forever be grateful in my life. I happened to attend an interview during one of the hardest transition phases in my career path. Just a 15-minute conversation led to her saying, “ I’m sure you will make your parents proud one day ”. This particular sentence made me awestruck. She has been doing complete justice as an HR and a human. More than an HR, I saw her as a sister. She is the one who inspired me to do things right in the workplace. I was not at all a blog writer before, but after reading a few of her blogs, I got inspired to write things👩‍💻 well this is my 3rd try! 😅

I’m not writing for anyone, but for me to keep all those special moments and memories alive

Dear Sister, if you’re reading this, I promise you — maybe not today but someday, You’ll feel proud of me.

The above-mentioned 5 people are those whom I had come across during various stages and situations when I needed them the most. I have been learning a lot from their lives.

I firmly believe, the longer the prayer, the bigger the miracle is going to be. Started Praying for the 6th and 7th wonders in my life.

I am sorry mom, don’t get offended. You’ll forever be my queen. But, I have started praying for my princess long back — She is 6th on the List 👩‍❤️‍👨

If someone finds her, please whisper in her ears, that a guy has been waiting for her so long and tell her that I’ll make her feel super special in this world. Period 😁 ( Don’t tell my mom about this😆)

And Finally 7, Generally, This number is known as a lucky charm. So, This 7th place is reserved for the one who’s yet to be born in some years! 👨‍👩‍👧 and she is gonna be very special. I would love to describe more about these two, but this isn’t the right time I suppose ( veetla adi vilum 😆 ), You’ll be getting to know about them in a few years.

These 7 women add colours to my life every single day.

When I wrote this, I thought the list was gonna end with 7 numbers. But I was wrong. A new person joins and I realised the list is gonna go -on forever!

7+(1st) person is someone who neither has any blood relation nor have we met in person before. What inspired me is the love & care she has for everyone around her. She is light when there is darkness, She is the Love when there is hurt, She is a beauty when there are ashes. I thank god for you dearest sister.

Debbie akka :) — In my entire life so far, I have never really felt this and said to anyone….but saying this to you — “I wish I had known you earlier — Life would have been so meaningful and beautiful” — Thanks for all that you do and gonna do. Wishes and prayers for you always!

Well, as of now 4/3/’22 that’s about the list :)

From being born in a family to giving birth to a family — these “Sacrificing Angels” go through a lot in all aspects of their hard journey🧚

God created everything along with a man soon he knew it was impossible to LIVE life to the fullest without a WOMAN. God knows best and gives only the BEST. Such things are Precious.

If you too have such wonders in your life, Come on it’s your duty (responsibility) to make them feel super special. Every single woman in this world deserves love, care and respect.

Kudos to all the women who read this 😅 May God Bless you. You are Special!

And Guys — So, now let me ask you “Do you have any wonders”? If Yes?

You know what to do then!

பெண் இன்றி வாழ்க்கையில் நிறைவேது??? ❤️

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I will get back to you in my next narrative, until then remember,

“ Respect women and You will be respected!”

Bye!

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Allwin Jashwa

Not only did I love to speak from my heart, but also I love to write from my heart! ……………#