Stop being a total pleaser

How many times do you feel you have to please everybody you know and others just so you don’t feel guilty if you don’t

For example: say someone ask you to look at their program, do you always feel obligated to do so.

Many times pleasing everybody is a time waster. Instead of directing on your own priorities we take on other’s as a more important choice.

This results in other distractions, having less time for your own responsibilities and feeling overwhelmed.

The best way to cut ties with pleasing everybody is to simply say no not at this time or I am truly busy with what I got maybe some other time.

It’s nothing personal. You really can’t be there for everybody all the time.

It’s especially hard on social media when you start amounting more friends and followers. Some of these folks think you are there to beckon their call anytime when simply that’s not the case.

Don’t be weak, don’t say hey I will do something for you now or today if you can’t. That may worsen the situation. Just tell them you have other things you need to do possibly later.

Once you eliminate some of this constant pleasing, you will feel more relieved, like a more relax person inside.

It’s tough. If you are going to not be a constant 100% people pleaser you must acquire a backbone. Not saying go off on folks, just saying assert yourself to others that you have to take care of other businesses. These folks should understand.

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