i totally understand too. i’ve step beyond the boundaries before and its hurt her terribly. we’ve reconciled since but she can never accept me crossdressing again. At one point in time she was accepting but the problem lies with me. today i’m just living a day at a time trying as much not to go back. I think we can support each other though, all i can say now is, stay true to your wife, she needs alot of assurance, she will run wild in her imaginations whenever a related news comes along.