Hi Lia Goloff. Great! Glad I could help. Thanks for writing this, as I think it demonstrates some solid credibility that you are open to new ideas, especially when those ideas can sometimes challenge both things we thought we understood, as well our own self perceptions of what being an ally means.
I say that as someone who first considered these issues several years ago, but while I had good intentions, I was largely ignorant of a lot of need to know stuff. Anti-racism was both a humbling and steep learning curve. None of us can be expected to know it all, or be the perfect ally poster child all the time, but being open to being wrong, and then receptive to learning something new is vital.